Podcast Episode #054
I’ve written on pastors’ wives a few times here at the blog and every time I do, people flock to the posts. So this week, we looked at these posts and discussed all things related to the pastor’s wife: expectations, loneliness, parenting, friendships, the desire for mentors, and so much more. Here are the points we covered:
- I wish someone had told me just to be myself.
- I wish someone had prepared me to deal with criticism of my husband and me.
- I wish someone had reminded me that my husband is human.
- I wish someone had told me that others were watching us (the glass house syndrome).
- I wish someone had told me there are some really mean people in the church.
- I wish someone had told me how much my husband needs me to build him up.
- I wish someone had told me that my schedule will never be normal again.
- The number one challenge for pastors’ wives is loneliness.
- These ladies need to know they have the love and support of their husbands.
- A pastor’s wife does not want a church member to tell her what her “job” at the church is.
- She would like church members to understand that neither she nor her family is perfect.
- The pastor’s wife does not want to field complaints from church members about her husband.
- The pastors’ wives who entered ministry with no forewarning about the issues they would face were the ones who stressed the most.
- She does not want to be told she needs to work to support her husband and family.
- While most pastors’ wives affirm their identity as a wife in ministry, they do not want that to be their only identity.
- Many pastors’ wives believe they need training for their roles.
- These ladies want to be reminded again and again to keep their focus on Christ.
- Many pastors’ wives want a means where they can support one another.
- Superficial relationships in the church.
- A busy pastor/husband.
- Mean church members.
- A conduit for complaints about her husband.
- Broken confidences.
- Frequent moves.
- Viewed as a second-class person.
- Lack of support groups.
- No date nights.
- Complaints about children.
- Husband does not give the wife priority.
- Financial struggles.
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